In a world of screens and shrinking attention spans, real-world social skills are disappearing. This NYT Bestselling guide gives kids ages 6+ the exact words to make friends, handle hard moments, and speak up with confidence.
📘 Ages 6–12
✅ Parent Approved
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What Should I Say? The Social Skills Book Every Kid Needs Right Now
Sarah M.
My daughter was struggling with some friendship drama at school and I didn't know how to help her. A friend recommended this book and honestly it was the best purchase I've made in a long time. She read it herself, came to me the next day and said "Mom, I know what to say now." The way it's written doesn't talk down to kids at all — it's funny, relatable, and actually practical. We've already ordered a copy for her best friend.
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Why Every Parent Is Ordering This Book
The social skills gap is real — and this book closes it.
Why Every Parent Is Ordering This Book
The social skills gap is real — and this book closes it.
Gives Kids the Exact Words They're Missing
No more "I didn't know what to say." This book hands kids real, ready-to-use scripts for the moments that matter most.
Tackles the Hard Stuff Head On
Friendship drama, bullying, awkward silences, standing up for themselves — it's all in here, handled with humor and zero judgment.
So Engaging Kids Read It Themselves
Packed with illustrations, pop quizzes, and relatable scenarios — it reads more like a fun magazine than a parenting book.
Builds the Skills Schools Don't Teach
Empathy, confidence, communication, and resilience. The life skills that determine how far your child goes — socially and beyond.
Who Is This Book Perfect For? If any of these sound familiar, this book was made for your child.
Social skills don't come naturally to every child — and that's completely normal. Whether your kid struggles to speak up, finds friendships confusing, or just doesn't know how to handle the tough moments,What Should I Say? gives them a simple, judgment-free roadmap to feeling confident in any social situation. Written with warmth and humor, it's the guide you wish you'd had growing up.
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Kids ages 6 and up
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Shy or quiet children
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Kids starting middle school
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Teens dealing with bullying
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Children with friendship struggles
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Parents who want confident kids
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Maddie,
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Verified Buyer
I love this book!
I love the way it looks! Great colors. Fun, appealing illustrations.
I love the way it feels in my hands (is that too weird?) Flexible but sturdy cover. Smooth paper.
Most of all I love the easy to follow steps that will help kids of all ages and social style interact with others in a kind, polite, respectful way while still being true to their own feelings and needs.
This will be super helpful for younger children through middle school and it would be great for teens and those going off to college. I mean, things like "how to comfort someone," "how to express empathy," and "how to break up with someone," are useful at any age.
Beth,
30
Verified Buyer
An easy to read book purchased for middle-schooler. I feel that reading this book together (or even just perusing it), and providing adult conversational wisdom and guidance achieves the greatest effect. She told me they had a copy of this book at her school in the counselors office. When I asked why she would know that, she described a litany of irritating but benign behavior that can send a kid to the office. Weird times right now at the middle school. 🤪
Amanda,
35
Verified Buyer
This book has excellent lessons for kids of many ages. My kids are all teenagers and it's very applicable. Some of the scenarios in the book are geared for a younger audience, but as a parent, I can modify them to what will apply to my kids. We have been going over a topic or 2 each week for a few months now, and it is well received. Topics include introductions, making small talk, arguments, dating, how to be right, how to be wrong, being awkward, etc.
Josh,
39
Verified Buyer
Great conversation starter for social situations. It gives kids who struggle with social situations the verbiage they need and action steps to take that make sense.
EVERYTHING INSIDE
One Book. Every Skill Your Child Needs.
From making friends to handling tough moments — if your child has wondered how to handle it, the answer is in here.
Making Friends
How to start conversations, join in, and build real friendships at any age
Handling Big Emotions
What to do when you feel angry, sad, jealous or overwhelmed
Dealing With Bullying
How to stand up for yourself and others without making things worse
Speaking Up
Finding the right words when you feel shy, nervous or unsure
Listening Skills
How to really hear people so they feel understood and respected
Feeling Left Out
What to say and do when you feel ignored, excluded or alone
Reading the Room
Picking up on social cues, body language and unspoken rules
School & Classroom
Group projects, asking for help and getting along with teachers
Empathy & Kindness
How to notice how others feel and respond in ways that help
Solving Conflicts
Calming arguments, apologising well and repairing friendships
Online & Digital Life
Group chats, gaming, peer pressure and staying kind on screens
Family & Siblings
Sharing space, fair fights and how to feel heard at home
Frequently Asked Questions
Find answers to common questions about our product.
Parents who want confident kids
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A:What Can I Say?is written for kids aged 10 and up, making it perfect for tweens and teens navigating middle and high school. The language and scenarios are relatable and age-appropriate — not too young, not too adult.
Will my child actually want to read it?
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A: That's the best part — yes. Unlike traditional self-help books, this one is packed with graphic-style illustrations, pop quizzes, and real-life scenarios that feel more like entertainment than education. Most parents are surprised by how quickly their kids get through it.
Is this book only for kids who have social problems?
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A: Not at all. Even confident, outgoing kids benefit hugely from this book. It covers everything from making new friends to handling conflict, being a good ally, and navigating romantic relationships — skills every young person needs, regardless of how social they already are.
How long does shipping take?
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A: We ship all orders within 1–2 business days. Delivery to most US addresses takes 5–10 business days. You'll receive a tracking number by email as soon as your order is on its way.
